Haha. I definitely took a swing and missed last night. We were having a great time and she was looking so good. Plus a bottle of wine and you can figure out where my thoughts were. Oh yeah and did I mention it's been 5 months!!! Lol I'm gonna file that one away in the "did not work" category as you suggested
I've actually walked in on her a couple times masturbating while watching porn. So that's why I assume she was masturbating while looking at it. I'm not sure what it is. If it's fantasy or something else, but it's nothing I can control and I would be lying if I didn't have my own fantasies either
As for the messages I saw. It's nothing on her end. I can tell the guy wish it was more by the things he was saying. And that's why I wish she would understand some boundaries about that. It's like she is just asking for trouble. I honestly don't think she does it on purpose. Or maybe she does and likes the attention Either way it's not something I'm worried about at the moment Even though we aren't "back in the sack" yet I feel very secure in our marriage. I guess there is no way to 100 percent know if there is anything going on, but it just seems very unlikely
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M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
