I completely agree with Zeus on this
To me this is her starting to see the results of her actions.
It seems like a complete temp check and wanting to make sure she has safety net
I would respond just like Zeus said
If she wants to make it work she is gonna need to do the heavy lifting right now


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it