I completely agree with Zeus on this To me this is her starting to see the results of her actions. It seems like a complete temp check and wanting to make sure she has safety net I would respond just like Zeus said If she wants to make it work she is gonna need to do the heavy lifting right now
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it