My W surprised us and came home last night about 9 pm from her work trip. She didn't call or anything, she was just all of a sudden at the door. She was supposed to be home late today. I was not expecting her and left my DR book on the kitchen counter. She saw the book and asked what it was. I told her it was just a self help book. Later on she was watching tv with me and during one of the commercials she asked about the book. She wanted to know where I got it or who told me about it. I told her my therapist recommended it. She asked if its working and I told her I don't know, but it's just a self help book. I always keep the book in a secret place, but left it out because I had been looking at it while she was gone. I hope she doesn't start investigating the book, but I don't trust her not too.
She also asked me about my therapist. She wanted to know what we talk about. She made some comment about if we talk about masturbating that I guess was a joke, but who knows wth she is thinking about. She said she doesn't like not knowing what the therapist and me are talking about and she said I always made her feel like sh*t. I calmly apologized if I made her feel that way in the past and told her it was never my intention to make her feel that way. Then I went back to tv show and tried to not talk to her anymore.
I'm also starting to wonder about her drinking. She drank about 3/4 of a bottle of wine when she got home last night. I know she drank a bottle last Saturday night and close to one on Sunday. On labor day weekend she got wasted on Friday night (that was the night she broke down) and she was drinking on both Sunday and Monday night of that weekend as well. She used to have maybe a glass or sometimes 2 but now it's nothing for her to drink the whole bottle.
She has also started talking about wanting a new car. She has always liked her car and had never made any comments about wanting to replace it. Now she told me last night the make and model of a high end car that she wants. I know with men in an MLC this is common but I don't know if women also want these types of things.
I'm getting close to the end of my rope with her. Jack and Eric posted about if can handle her texting the OM and I don't know how much longer I can go. Last night after I responded to Eric's post on here I was going to bed and as I walked by her room I saw her on her phone texting. It was 1:15 am and my S2 was sleeping next to her because he had got up crying. So she was laying in bed texting another man at 1:15 in the morning with my son right there next to her. I managed to get to my room without saying anything, but I think I am getting close.
M39, W36 T12, M10 S6,S2 Discovered EA 8/8 that started 7/31
