Whenever I find myself falling back into emotional fusion (letting my mood be dictated by H's actions or what I think his mood is), I realize that I have let my GAL activities slip a little.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16