Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 4)

[JRuss]

I could also use and would really appreciate some advice on my approaching anniversary (Sunday). Do I say anything? Mark it in any way? I dread it coming and going with no acknowledgment from her, and it chokes me up thinking about it. She hasn't mentioned it, and I'm not even sure she remembers it's coming up. We certainly don't look like we're going to be celebrating it in any way. With the move out of the MBR this week and the anniversary fast approaching, I'm really feeling like crap, and it's showing, and I know that undermines all of what I'm trying to do. It is rough.