I know some of you have commented I'm handling this well. I've been reading this forum, other forums, the DB book, other books and getting unsolicited advice. Plus my marriage counselor. My goal is to mainly focus on this site and the book.

Here's my problem, I;ve totally lost focus. At this point my brain is scrambled eggs. Some of the more complex strategies are too tough to understand at this point. Does that make sense?

Where I am:
1. Not talking to wife other then child issues- I assume this is going dark.
2. GAL- working, staying healthy, living life.

I'm trying to wait this out and hope my wife comes to her senses. Is this a reasonable plan?