Thank you Job.

I am fairly familiar with depression having suffered with it in the pat. I will look deeper into mlc and pre menopause.

I know and agree with everything you said. But being in the middle of this it does no harm to be reminded.

Is your assessment of me based on my posts here or have you had the time to review my threads in Newcomers?

I have not been an active poster, at least not on my thread but maybe moving here, will help me restart.

I would like to clarify that I see myself as just fairly busy, not very busy. But it seems neither I nor W want me to be occupied all the time. So I balance in the way that suits me best. Over time I will post more about this and other interactions that I may not be optimal at.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together