Sexual fantasies don't have to be the result of anything that actually happened to a person. In fact, sometimes it would be impossible for it to have happened. Tentacle porn, for example.

And just because she watched some videos (how do you know she masterbated to them?) doesn't mean she wants actual sex like that.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16