In addition as Cherry is seeing a very small breakthrough in her H's attitude towards communication, whatever his motives might be, goes to show that Cherry has been listening and implementing the advice of the vets on here so she should be given some credit for this. She just happens to now be at another stage at which she might need different advice to help her navigate her sich

Sorry, but I feel a bit upset that just because some of us who comment on Cherry's sich haven't successfully saved our marriages that we wouldn't be any help to her.


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')