Papers are filed, here comes the D. Focus on me

[Coly23]

Sorry but I disagree SH. I don't see that Cherry has been given poor advice by others, yes comfort but I thought that was what this board was all about.

As with anyone on this board Cherry is able to take or leave any advice whether it is from someone ruminating and in pain in their own sich or someone who has been through this and come out the other side. She can see what is good or bad and I can't see anyone on here on here has given advice which will make her sich worse.

I have read posts from the piecing forums and whilst they help to give hope they aren't all full of success stories and are full of people still in a huge amount of pain.

Cherry admits that she made the mistake of taking H back too quickly the last time and wont make that mistake again and we all agree. Most of us may not have been through her particular circumstances before but we are all grown up enough to tread carefully when dolling out advice and hope that we are able to provide support and comfort in our own way as much as someone who has been here a long time.

Sorry just my two pennies.