{{{{{kaw}}}}}

i wish i had more wisdom in these matters, kaw. you are a wonderful person, and i know this is against dbing rules, but IMHO, your w is a silly cow. i'm glad you are able to chart a steady course, not reacting to her negatives or positives (big one for me to learn ) only thing i can offer is what i got back when i suggested to my H before discovering dbing that we should give up - his deflating, but immortal words - give up and do what? so i guess we all hang in there, wait for the aliens to go home, and pursue a richer life. yeah right.

slowly, who thought her journey was the reward

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