Mindreading. You've been doing alot of that concerning her actions. If you read carefully, you are the one getting yourself angry. Not her.
This is called projection.... Psychological Projection... Emotional Displacement... You are basically pushing your emotional hurt and pain into her actions. You will gain nothing from this And typically it will enhance your pain, struggles and suffering throughout this process.
This is why it is so important to learn about and work on healthy detachment....
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine