"My wife has mental and physical problems right now due to midlife crisis and peri-menopause."
MMMM no. It's also based on how you treated her in the M. I understand you want to try to attract her back using positive energy, law of attraction, or whatever, but the bottom line is that it still seems you're trying to "control" the situation.
If she actually wanted to come back to you. Why would she come back to someone who is the same as when she left?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.