My son is having some issues when he is with my spouse. Bothering me today. I have to let them get through it together. He is just in a violent response stage and it's hard to hear about. No rescue, no control, no blame; not seeking that as a solution. Already doing what can be done on my end....staying the foundation, taking him to a behavior play group w/ an IC, being his father. He bit some kid at her gym today - banned for three weeks, second time in a month. She told me she cries everyday because she feels lost and out of control. I listen, I validate, I answer questions when directly asked by her.
He asked me on the phone tonight if I was mad at him for doing it. I told him I wasn't. [censored].
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
