WOW..glad to see you posted again..and look at the response..LL is too cute and right to the point..I always have admired her for her strength and boldness..makes alot of sense about the job thing...

The questions about wondering if it is for real... believe me you will know, I have been through many emotions these past few years..actually it has been almost 5 since h and I started drifting..some times were good..but it never felt quite right..until things got to a point and he left, and I moved on with my life..blah blah blah..and HE is the one that turned himself around..nothing I could say or do was going to change how he felt or what he wanted...I let him ride out his own wave and as alot of you know I was ready to give him a D that he mentioned last Halloween..but I waited..patiently and he decided that our life and m together was worth keeping..Oh no I stole your thread..SORRY
I don't post on my own much..
Anyways..my point is we all know what we want..are we willing to hang on for as long as it might take? Thats what each of us has to decide.

There are many new people here, with fresh ideas..

Sue