I wish I had time to read through this and post, but I will later tonight. I glanced at the posts and had to chime in!
1. Nothing has changed and there is nothing to be excited about! No minding reading and no believing anything he says! 2. Do not let this give you hope and do not change anything you are doing. So he may have some confusion or doubts? I think that is everyone, even those that file and do D. 3. Continue to DB, continue follow Sandi's rules, and pay him NO MIND! If anything step back a little further and protect your heart.
Even if he calls you today crying and says "I miss you, I am sorry, I want you back," still NOTHING from your side changes. This is a LONG process. He is no where near where he needs to be! He needs to get out so you can focus on you and kids. Got it? IF you can do this, you are also more likely to have success later on ....
I'll be back later! Running out door. (((Cherry)))
-Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
