H filed for divorce - is it too late?

[csabo]

I guess H was talking to his friend about how he doesn't want to just "hook up" with random girls and how it would have been so easy to stay with me, but that he's doing the right thing for his life but it's unjust how difficult it is to do.

If it's easier to stay with me, I just don't understand why he's trying so hard to leave. How do I combat the idea that it's the "right" thing to do to leave me?

I've got to just keep consistent with the changes, and with the GAL and implementing my new ideas from DB coach. Patience is the hard part! It's only been two months, feels like a lifetime! And I know lots of you here have been at it for much longer.

I think I also need to work on improving communication skills/validating. He tried to talk to me again the other day about why he felt like a loser, and I had a hard time not just saying "I don't think you're a loser..."