Me and my 2 daughters

[Irish M]

Just bought myself a nice new pair of shoes and got me a haircut
I am happy :-)

Only thing was my hairdresser bumped into XW

When she started talking about her interaction with XW I was about to tell her to stop. That I don't want or need to hear about her. Not my concern.

But she was faster than me and said the one topic that stung me like a bee. My girls

She started out saying that my XW looked sad. lol most victim like. That she misses the girls so much. That she writes to them often and they are avoiding her because she left their dad. Me

My hairdresser knows about my situation. I mean who better to open up to but your hairdresser right. I'm not a bar guy so no bartender to empty my thoughts out onto.

She also knew the old W.

So my hairdresser says while my XW was playing victim she noticed that she couldn't make eye contact. She had this lost look like she was in some other kind of reality. The only advice she gave my XW was . Follow and listen to your heart.
My ex answers . "That's what I'm doing" and walked off.

My hairdresser said she looked almost normal. Couldn't tell that she hadnt seen her kids in over a year. Hid her sadness well.

I told my hairdresser next time just say . Show me those letters and emails. That she will deliver them personally. I'm sure my XW will answer. Oh , I don't keep them. Deleted.

That old story is still hers and going strong Unbelievable but it is what it is. She's still far off into the land of lala and coucou's

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