My H said when I started doing DB things like GAL and cleaning a lot that it was insulting since i should have been found it before he gave the "ultimatum". I'm not sure how to respond to that, I said I had gotten complacent, like when he got a gym membership but didn't use it for months.
A couple of months ago my W hinted around something along those lines as well. I validated by stating her actions (her leaving me) forced me to see how bad I had become and I did not want to be the hateful man anymore. It was the truth too. Until she left me I had no idea how hurtful towards her I had become.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day
