Here's a copy of a email I received from a long time friend...
"Can't really give you much advice on marriage, not that you were asking for any. I do have some thoughts on happiness I'll share with you."
"I've been chasing happiness for a long time, as I'm sure we all do. What I know now is that no one can make me happy. If you are the source of your Wife's unhappiness, I doubt you are, maybe she should split. But if she's unhappy for her own reasons, I think its unfair for her to expect you to do anything, and unrealistic to think a new Brian will make a difference. My 2 cents."
