Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #4]

[ForGump]

Yes, took the ring off for a few days long ago but once I realized I need to do everything for me -- not for W or for anyone else's perception, not even my own kids -- I decided this is something that means something for me, and decided to keep it on. Glad I did. I will take it off if/when we are officially divorced.

PacLove -- I'm still doing in-house separation. So there isn't a structured agreement for taking care of our kids. I take my S to school, work M-F 9-5, then I go home and enjoy my time w/ my kids. Since I'm w/o kids M-F 9-5 and my work gives me a lot of freedom, I don't particularly feel a need to get away from my kids.