We've had lots of problems too. All could be easily fixed/forgiven (no EA, PA, phys abuse, infidelity to my knowledge). W blames me for everything. No matter how little I could have contributed to what makes her mad. Yep, refuses to go to counseling. I agree with you. To protect self-esteem or ease guilt. Seems to be an attribute for WW/WAW/MLC. Anyone see a pattern?
Hey Cessna- I do think I'm guilty of letting the blame game go on for to long. Like most issues, better to deal with them early.
On another note, I recall a guy on one of these boards. He said his wife blamed him for everything durn her MCL. At first he promised her the world, he would change. Didn't help. THe MCL eventually ran its course. And guess what? She stopped blaming him and accepted him for who he is. Probabluy a good guy.
