LL makes some good points. Ones I'm pondering myself these days as you know from my thread.
Have you been able to determine what specifically you're doing when CAW is positive? The ring seems significant to me. What's different in March?
I'm not sure the snooping is helping you right now, and perhaps a bit of detachment is in order. Can't snoop and detach at the same time, IMO.
Seems to me CAW is still vaccillating between fantasy and reality, but also knows good old KAW is always going to be there so feels like she is in pretty good control here. My H once said to me "I know that I can come home if I want to." And part of him does want to... seems like I encouraged the waffling by creating that impression in his head... that this M is all about what H wants. Well guess what... it's not. And I didn't realize I was creating the impression that it was. Do you think CAW might have a similar sense of things? That maybe part of her drama is that she knows she can have her M, but OM is more of a challenge?
