Speaking on behalf of RDS...his DB coach advised him to write a letter apologizing for his contributions to the breakdown of the marriage. My DB coach did the same, and I still have a copy of the letter I sent...
Zues,
I think IRL I would want to be your BFF.
What you wrote is exactly the way it came down. I couldn't have said it any better. I don't know if I should be sad or not, but I have forgiven my W for what she did. People that know of the situation (not many to be sure) think I'm an idiot for doing that.
I just really guard what I say and do now.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day