Thanks Andrew P. Funny - similarly to you I was looking after BD1 - but I had to move, company was getting acquired. I stepped up into a new role (promotion) but with a lesser known company, thought W would get excited but she was very negative about the change. She had been complaining for years for me to move and all of a sudden I get the new challenge and she was dead against it.
I think it was largely due to the fact she knew she'd be moving out and didn't want the added stress... plus the new job short term would be less $'s but longer term had more potential upside. (moving out she was probably only thinking short term)
Job has been great and Boss has been great and understanding through this all - so it's hard to turn my back on that now after only a year in.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17