H filed for divorce - is it too late?

[RDS]

Hi RDS, curious to know how/what was used against you?

Sorry, to get back to you so late.

She used DB tactics against me such as going out in social circles again as I had stopped going out with her towards the end. That was part of GAL for me.

She used my apology letter my DB coach suggested I send (and my W seemed genuinely touched when she got it).

There were a few other things, but generally she used things I was doing to improve myself. In her mind I should have been doing stuff like before she left and it was proof that I was glad she was gone.