What should I be doing (Working toward D 9)

[Coconut]

The urge to take care of things for my WW is strong... We haven't got the written offer yet, but realtor told us about a counter offer to our counter offer for the house, and we are going to accept it once it comes in.

So I went in to WW's office (we work together) to let her know that I just had my interview, I think they are going to offer me the job, and they indicated they wanted to the person to start in 3 weeks.. I let her know because that would mean I would be leaving town in 2 weeks, and would have to fly back down for the closing. When I went into her office, she was pulling her credit score which took a hit the month of BD (I wasn't in a bill paying mood when I found out) and she didn't take the initiative to make sure her stuff was paid.

Anyway, I asked if she was planning on buying something as soon as we sell, and she said she wants to buy a townhouse. I advised her that unless we are divorced by then, I don't know that I am willing to sign off on that since I would then be responsible for half that debt. I'm going to talk to my lawyer, but I believe me signing off on her buying a place would be a bad idea for me.

I think it's hitting her a little, just how real this $h!t is... I hope one day she can look at this whole situation and shake her head in disbelief that she did all this for something she considers a "friendship".

I'm a bit anxious, selling the house, possibly changing jobs and moving in a few weeks, it's a lot of changes in a short amount of time. But I am excited, I am not angry, I am ready to go off into the big bad world and find myself again.