We've had lots of problems too. All could be easily fixed/forgiven (no EA, PA, phys abuse, infidelity to my knowledge). W blames me for everything. No matter how little I could have contributed to what makes her mad. Yep, refuses to go to counseling. I agree with you. To protect self-esteem or ease guilt. Seems to be an attribute for WW/WAW/MLC. Anyone see a pattern?
