AmyTX - I'm sorry you have found yourself here. You'll get lots of great advice. The core thing is to focus on yourself and D13. H is on his own journey and you don't want to go along for that ride.

I'm sure the vets will chime shortly with more specific advice.

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I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good.
But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells