Originally Posted By: Rick1963


My brother has the hots for you. He loves your eyes. He always asks about you.if you tell him I told u I will deny it.

I told him u were single. He said "really such a pretty woman how can that be".

Time to get that self worth up a notch or ten. Nothing wrong with you


For real?! Awwww, he is so sweet ( you and your brother are gems). I enjoyed so much talking with him and your sister in law when I met them. They are really great people.

My self worth seems to bounce all over these days. We should never let others define it. But constant rejection makes you question yourself. I keep asking if there is something wrong with me, and not to sound conceited, but I can't figure it out. Of course I've got flaws and I mess up a lot, but I am human, and other humans don't have the love track record I do.

I did realize I have never had a successful romantic relationship. I don't define success as long lasting or never ending. My ex and I were a train wreck from the beginning to end. My others have not been real relationships, basically based on friendship, sex, and convience. exNG was more than that, there was love, but it was also dysfunctional from the beginning. he was in and out so many times, pretty much confused and always acting on his confusion. There was just no points of success in any romantic R's I've ever had.

I give others relationship advice and I have never had a healthy one myself. When people say I idealize, it's because that's all I have to go on. What I think would look and feel right and healthy to me.

D9's birthday was nice. She loved loved loved the slime box I got her. All stuff from the dollar store and it was like the best present she ever received. We took her out to dinner, ex and I get along just fine. I was a little stung when she opened the card from him and OWW and it was like a "from your parents" type card, describing the kind of girl who comes from "parents" I felt my stomach flip, and just shoved the feelings away and smiled. We came back to the house, had cake, and he left. he had her factime with his sister and cousins but never had his wife call her. So when he left, I told D9 to call her so she could wish her a Happy birthday.

D9 and I also saw 2 new condos. The one out of my price range we LOVED. It was amazing. So we are going to find out how motivated the seller is and put in a low ball offer. We shall see!