Papers are filed, here comes the D. Focus on me

[Surfer]

The less I initiate the less my W initiates. She's almost mirroring my behavior.

This seems common. My W does this too. I also don't see a massive success rate on this forum I must admit. It's all great in theory, but in practice, someone said it's more a forum to help people cope with S or D in many ways. That definitely worries me.

Surfer.