Papers are filed, here comes the D. Focus on me

[Surfer]

I do find the less I care about talking to my WW the more she tries to talk and explain herself to me. I asked a simple yes or no question yesterday and got a huge response. Detaching does get easier and I like you have also questioned if piecing is really even an option for us anymore.

The tricky think here, I find, is you expect "yes/no" but again, they give "a huge response". At this stage I am thinking "please shut up, your opinion on this is self absorbed and it's really hard to listen to, also I have my own". I am not sure what the point is in their behaviour, perhaps it's mine - I can be very impatient. I try not to be. Do you get this? If you do has your WW always been the type that needs to be told she is right etc?..

You and PsySara discuss questioning if piecing is possible. Surely at the stage that you decide it 'won't happen', as you have checked out, is game over? IDK?

I don't like to think of that being the potential case but clearly anything is possible. Literally.

Surfer.