Confused on What to Do 2

[Eagle11]

My mom texted me tonight asking if her and my dad can come see my boys in October. I told her I'm not sure right now. For anyone who didn't read my previous thread or doesn't remember I told my mom about the marriage problems early on and it was a mistake. She furious at my wife and wanted me to get out of the M. I also told my mom not to tell anything to my sister because my sister is impulsive and I guess you could say she is not afraid to speak her mind. My mom kept that promise for a couple of weeks but then ended up telling my sister who of course goes on facebook and posts something about my W (without calling her out by name). My W comes home and tells me what my sister said. My W doesn't blame me but asks me to talk to my mom about this. I ask my mom the next day about it and she blows up at me and calls me a bunch of names and other things. My mom and my sister also stop following my W on facebook and my sister makes another post about my W. My W complains to me again about my sister and decides to block both my mom and my sister from following her on facebook. The next day my mom apologizes to me via text,but I haven't really spoke with my mom since other that a few text about my sons.

So tonight she texts me they want to come down in October. I immediately think this is a bad idea. I don't want my parents anywhere near my wife. This would only make my sitch worse. My mom says they will stay in a hotel and come pick up the boys and bring them back to the hotel. I still tell I'm not sure right now. She texts me that she doesn't understand and I just tell her I'm sorry. She then questions if I even still have the boys (she must think my W took them away from me), and I assure her I do. She asks why I won't let her skype with them and I tell she can, but she doesn't write back. Such a bizarre situation and I regret ever telling my mom about this. I didn't tell her everything, but just enough. Last week my W actually asked me if my parents would be coming down anytime soon because if they were she was going out of town because she doesn't want to see them.


One other thing happened tonight. About 9:00 my W calls me from her hotel phone because apparently her phone went black on her and she can't get it to work. I wanted to tell her she might have killed it from the 500 text messages she sends on it everyday, but I was good and kept my mouth shut. She had this same problem a couple of weeks ago and I fixed it, but when she tried the fix tonight it didn't work. Anyway, she wanted to know if I could call her room tomorrow to wake her up for work. I said ok, but I'm wondering why she doesn't just get a wake up call from the front desk? Maybe she just misses my cheerful voice in the morning (that's a joke). I guess this does means there was probably no action with OM #1 tonight. I also snooped in the phone records after this call from her. I have been better lately but I had to see if she was texting anyone when this phone died and I discovered she had been texting both OM. They both sent her a text and then her phone died so now they are probably wondering wth is happening. I actually find it quite amusing. She is depressed because her phone died right in the middle of texting and the guys are probably wondering what happened to her.

Still, when she has problems she looks to me to fix them. She asked if I knew how to fix the phone for her. Then she asks me to wake her up in the morning. She could have asked the front desk or the lady she is traveling with to give her a call, but nope she asks me. A couple of weeks ago she got a ticket for apparently texting or looking at emails while driving. Guess who the first person she calls after the incident? She called me to complain about it.