Hi Cld
glad you are back.
I know its hard seeing your wife doing and acting in ways you never would of imagined. It's good you are reading up on MLC and WAW. The more you know and understand why your wife is in this crisis the better. Sadly we start to think they are broken. We should just get out of their way and let the crisis pass. Hopefully she grows from this and comes to realize what she has done.

I still get the impression you are looking for a quick pass. Her being nice to you and giving you more chances to see the kids is great. It's no way a start to you reconnecting.

I feel your pain. I hope those who you have upset here still come to support you. You, yourself are in your won crisis and are hard heading in taking advice. If the advice doesn't fit what you are looking for let it slide. It may help someone else reading your sitch.

Of all the sitches ive read. Yours is getting the top vets. Don't disrespect that.

Its your time to grow and make yourself a better person. Your wife, your thoughts about her, your hopes need to be put on a shelf somewhere until and if she is ready.

cheers friend
Irish


M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015