Originally Posted By: PsySara
I found that when I stopped caring about WH calling/texting/checking on me he suddenly kicked it up a notch. It's bizarre in a way, when we become detached the WH suddenly realizes they are not, as they previously thought, the center of the universe. I am pulling back on my WH again as he has shoved his foot in his mouth again and requires some distancing. The funny thing is, detaching is becoming very easy now, to the point I am not sure piecing is really an option for us anymore.


I do find the less I care about talking to my WW the more she tries to talk and explain herself to me. I asked a simple yes or no question yesterday and got a huge response. Detaching does get easier and I like you have also questioned if piecing is really even an option for us anymore.


W:32 M:26
T:5 yrs M: 3 yr
BD: JUN 2016
W Moved out: early JUL 2016
W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016
EA: 06/16?
PA: 07/16
Moved in w/ ow: 07/16
D final: 10/16