I found that when I stopped caring about WH calling/texting/checking on me he suddenly kicked it up a notch. It's bizarre in a way, when we become detached the WH suddenly realizes they are not, as they previously thought, the center of the universe. I am pulling back on my WH again as he has shoved his foot in his mouth again and requires some distancing. The funny thing is, detaching is becoming very easy now, to the point I am not sure piecing is really an option for us anymore.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3