Good job linking your threads! It took me a while to get the hang of that. Sorry your W is moving out, but that's good that it's not with the OM, that will be better for your kids.
Can't wait to hear about standing your ground and your boundary!
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17