It is going to sound like an echo around here, but I have to agree with everyone regarding the cake eating that you wife is enjoying.
Good news that she is noticing your changes. She could be temperature checking you to be sure that you are still a viable plan B when things with OM #TBD don't work out.
You are at a very fragile point in this relationship and it would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be.
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