Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #4]

[PacLove]

I've given up mind reading - moods come and go, some days I get polite some days I get complete coldness... she picked us up from the airport a few months ago and the whole way home she's talking about what investments we should make and I just think to myself not right now. I avoid this future talk now I don't think she's accepted reality of the situation or if she has she's got her own warped view of what the future looks like (living alone/w OM but still reaping some of the benefits of marriage)

Definitely take some time for yourself, I've found it rewarding although I can see why you'd want to spend the time with your kids. I'm on the higher percentage (70%+) so when I get the chance to take a day here or there I grab it - and she's generally been accommodating unless she has previous plans.

Can you see if you can swap out another day to give you a few days in a row?

BTW Ring still on or off? I've taken mine off for short periods but keep putting it back on - feel naked/weird without it. She hasn't worn hers for over a year :-(