I appreciate your chirp, Coly.

I have no confidence in my ability to mind read.

Weird to go from feeling like your marriage is something you believe in unconditionally, something permanent ... to have it be an unknown black creature, some capricious thing that will turn and bite you and tear you to pieces.

Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final