Papers are filed, here comes the D. Focus on me

[Surfer]

Had an opportunity to go visit family on mainland Spain this weekend, seriously considered it but the flight prices are absolutely ridiculous, and I've got an important meeting in work on Thursday. It's a possibility to do, but just feel it would be a lot of rushing for a couple nights and an awful lot of expense. Plus airlines charge the same price for a toddler as an adult. Criminal

Be careful. You might be kidding yourself these are the real reasons. You might not of course. Worried he may backslide if you go? Worried about OW? Worried about the neediness you might have if he is not within sight? Worried you will feel safer in your R if you stay nearer him?

I have felt this before. A lot. I would put off travelling north to see grandparents with kids - you can see why. But I was wrong. You being around does not help oddly. Only time and space help.

Surfer.