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[Jack_Three_Beans]

Doesn't look like you have a thread here NYGal.

I suggest one.

Here is the reason.

If you are piecing, and reconciling then the advice is going to be very different than most DB tactics.

Here you are able to talk about your relationship, you have to, here you have to set boundaries with consequences. Here you get to argue. Here you get to say I love you. You get to talk about the OW you get to talk about how you feel and what he is doing to reassure you. As long as both of you are working on reconciling there are a ton of things you get to do that they cannot do or advise you to do in New Comers.

Its a whole different ball game, with different rules.