What do I see? In hindsight I view it as I did not change my communication approach to speak with her. I used the same approach every time and it failed every time. She never had to be in control of money and she became overwhelmed when speaking about it. I was not understanding of that at the time.
Security? Well, yes it sure is false, but that is the feeling people get from it when they feel it.
Have I considered life like an ocean? More like a river... Big fan of water analogy.
Living in the moment is something I have been striving for these past few months. Getting better at it. I have gotten there at points in life, but lost it again. I am concentrating on learning tools now to make it stick - fundamental changes in my thinking and approach.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
Big fan of water analogy. 