WHs do come back--Piecing--acceptance & time

[Coconut]

I don't think you need to worry if you would ever take him back forgive him at this point. I thought about that a lot too. There is not way to know now how you will feel if and when that happens. It is will depend very much on his behavior and commitment to the M.

-Blu

yep, that resonates with me.. I think I often ask myself if I would want her back, and I'm not sure why I do it. I realize that feelings can change on a dime, so I doubt that I would even be able to decide what I would do now if that was to happen in the future.

Now I look at my W and I really don't even recognize who she is, not only is her personality like a whole new person, but she's lost probably 25% of her body weight, she was weighing around 130 and now I doubt she's even 100lbs, she went from a size 8 to a size 1, so I don't even recognize her physically. For the first time ever, I can honestly say that I don't even find her attractive when I look or think of her.

ok, I'm rambling, but I wanted to say hi blu...