Married 15 Years 2 Kids B10 G13 Never has there ever been anything like this in the past. That is why it is so hard for me to accept. It is so completely out of character for her and that is why I am willing to work on this and just not run. I recognize for her to go to a place like this, I must assume part of the blame for it and try and fix it. She is just not willing to work on anything yet. I hope we get there.