Trying to detach - part deux

[Coly23]

Oh Altair! I am so sorry I can't believe he made you cry and then left you with no answers! The things he was saying you haven't done yet, how does he know if he hardly sees you? Are there any 180s that you can do to show him you are and can change?

It's almost like he knows you are reaching that stage of detachment and then bam he drags you back to that dark, empty place full of longing! Whyyyyy!!

Has he taken no responsibility for the breakdown in your marriage? Surely his therapist should be helping him to look at his own contribution!

I'm trying to take the positives out of what he said about working it out as I am sure you are, but is there no plan of action? Has he just left you to twist in the wind again?

You are so right about the roller coaster and I really want to get off!!

SH, yes you are right love is a choice. I think it's probably the intense feelings of loss that are starting to settle that is making me question my love for H. I k is that I do still love him bug not like a lost puppy anymore!