Just working the process, but wondering when......

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Thanks Cnut. That is definitely what I need to hear and remind me that's why I want this M to work. I love my W. I want to be with her, I don't need her. We are so close in so many other ways than we use to be. I need to continue to remember that this is a marathon not a sprint

I'm sorry I haven't chimed in! After Cnut's post, I reread your exchange from your W POV. She did so much there, it's a huge positive. It's amazing really. She wouldn't do that if you haven't been filling her tank. She recognized you were having a crummy day and basically gave you a pass, because you allow someone you love to blow off steam when they're stressed out. If you haven't already, tell her how much you appreciate that and make sure you say so in counseling as well. Does it feel as pleasurable as the woman you love taking care of your physical needs? No. It does show that there is a deep connection, and as that continues to be cultivated......you cut to the proverbial train in the tunnel.

Not to say I think you're approaching it from a lustful place, because it's quite obvious you want to be close to and with her. You want to make that connection. She knows that, but maybe you're just working too hard there. She's definitely coming around....