Taking my first sip of the water

[ATPeace]

I am feeling what you are saying is let go of the marriage and do things for myself change myself find someone else if that is,what I want to happen save myself stop working on saving or trying to rebuild ...would I be correct and yes you can hit me with a 2x4

That's the message you got from reading SH's post?

Sandi. I am just trying to understand what he means when he says time may be running out

I do not want to stop working in things working on me bettering myself working to be a better person I just feel that after one year I am not sure if any progress has been made with me or how things are

Am I really so blind that I am missing what is being said to me