Sorry your hear, but welcome to the community. you will find a lot of information that will help you through this situation, and you will come out of this situation a better man.
For right now, the best thing you can do as far as your relationship is concerned is do nothing, do not try and implement things you read right away, really read everything and get a good understanding of the process before trying to implement things. For right now, DO NOT initiate relationship talks, just give your W space, and take some space for yourself.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
