Don't be afraid or ashamed to cry, it's a tough time. If I cry, I do it when I'm alone so nobody sees. But don't hold it in, usually after a crying session you feel a lot better, like a valve has been released.
And I agree with painter, it's not cake eating, but co parenting. It's good that you can do things regarding the kids that help one another. But again with painter on cake eating would be taking care of them so she can go out with om.
You're doing great at this, you can't keep a good man down. Even though you're hurting you don't stay in the depths of despair, you pick yourself up and get back to it. Standing for your m is so honourable . We aren't taking the easy option by any means.
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16